If you’re a legal adult where you live, you don’t need your mother’s permission to travel, either across the street or across the ocean.

“Remind me… what’s so bad about the Musclebears, again?”

For any of you in San Francisco this weekend for SF Bear Weekend, please be sure to come by the two Bear Central sponsored events.

The main event is the Meet N Greet at the Lookout Bar at 3600 16th Street at Market in San Francisco. There will be lots of drink specials, food and hot bears gearing up for the weekend! Chris and I will be on hand to sell our Bear Central T-shirts for only $15 and we’re donating $5 of every shirt we sell to the Bears of San Francisco.

Great news here at Bear Central: We’ve passed the 20,000 member mark AND we’ve just launched the BETA version of Bear Central MOBILE! The site is compatible with iPhone, iPad, Android, Tablet and Blackberry devices.

To check it out, just go to BearCentral.com on your smart-phone or tablet.

Now you can do just about everything on your smart-phone that you can on the desktop version of Bear Central — see who’s online, send messages, search for members, post a status update, comment on a blog… and a lot more.

Some of you have asked why we’ve done a web mobile version and not an app. First off, the app is coming. We wanted to release the web mobile…

Last year’s FREE desktop calendar was so popular that I got right to making one for 2012 – and then forgot to post it – but it is only mid-February! I am a rather forgetful bear sometimes. Click through to the post to download your FREE desktop calendar!

One of you out there posted this video in the activity stream a week or so ago. I saw it while I was traveling and managed to remember the name of the video, but the not name of the Bear Central member who shared it. Whoever it is… thanks for the lead. I’m in love with Charles K. Brown. Click through to watch the sexy vid.

I have an idea. Why not start the evening out and get his motor runnin’ first with a snazzy pair of undies. But, not something goofy and frilly that might embarrass you if you choked on a smoked oyster and suddenly had to go to the hospital.

To jump-start this week, let’s just say you get to have your choice of one of these three burly hunks – for one long night of unbridled, bring-it-on-home-to-Jesus, lip-smackin’, belly-bumpin’ monkey sex.

Some people say Marijuana (pot, weed, grass) is harmless. And, yes – in many areas, you can even get medical prescriptions for it, these days. But, as you may have heard, Marijuana tends to be a transitional drug, often leading straight to more dangerous stuff, like sweat pants and Cheetos.

“What the hell is an Otter?”

When, after the third date, somebody says, “You know, it’s just not working for me.” Go ahead and ask him, “Why not? Is it me?” Assuming, of course, that it IS something about you; you deserve to know. You can’t change what you don’t know. And you won’t know unless you ask. He might think you’re a weirdo for pressing him on details (for which you need to prepare yourself, by the way), but, hell… he’s not dating you anymore anyway, so who cares what he thinks, right?

The U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals has upheld a lower case ruling that California’s ban on same-sex marriages, known as Proposition 8, is unconstitutional.